Earlier this year, Dr. Kristin Neff was featured in a New York Times article about self-compassion. If you’ve read my series, Dealing With Anger Mindfully — 6 Steps, you will be familiar with Neff and her work since it is featured in step 3 of the series, Do Self Compassion.
The NYT article illustrates the connection between self-compassion and improvements in a person’s health (depression, anxiety, eating and more). With that said, it seems like the commenters/readers of the article were still a little skeptical about the ideal of self-compassion, calling it another word for self-indulgence.
Luckily Neff made a video about self-compassion. After watching it, do you understand the difference between self-compassion and self-indulgence?
So I decided to post this after the previous night’s ramble about Points of Views and Everything In-Between. If you haven’t read that post already or even if you have but forgot, Marc is the teacher of the Skillful Speech class I took over the summer. (I’d like to point out that the class only had women, even though men could join too.) Anyhow, enjoy the talk!
A mental health video of a housewife from the 50s on LSD is being passed around on the Internets right now. I couldn’t put my finger on what was so spectacular about the video until a friend wrote this:
Seeing someone with absolutely no context or expectations for this experience is fascinating.
I agree Joe, I agree.
Watch the clip.
Could not embed any great video links. Read “Why You and I Can’t Embed Music Videos” to understand why.
I was listening to one of my old mix CDs and this came on (in addition to a lot of other songs that simultaneously embarrassed me and made me happy). Do you remember this song? Memories anyone? All I gotta say is 1996 was a helluva year.
From the Soto Zen Buddhist Association. ( Bolding is all me though)
What is Soto Zen? Soto Zen was developed in the ninth century by the Chinese Monks Tozan (Ch. Dongshan) and Sozan (Ch. Caoshan), the first syllables of their names making up the subsequent name of the school. It stressed doing meditation without a goal, as everyone is already inherently enlightened. Seated, silent meditation is an expression of this.
Soto Zen Buddhism is distinguished by its focus on the down-to-earth practice of “everyday zen.” It encourages awareness of the workings of one’s own mind as a means of living mindfully in all areas of daily life – at home, at work and in the community.
In his “Instructions for the Cook,” Dogen taught that cooking and caring for other people were as important as sitting zazen and chanting sutras.
Soto Zen is for those who want to practice Zen in everything they do. In coming face to face with their life in all its aspects, they come to know themselves and find their relationship to all other things. They learn to be truly here and to serve in all ways.
You can find a center near you, if you’re intrigued, on the Soto Zen Buddhist Association website.